Weekly Wisdom

New year - a new chapter, new verse, or just the same old story?

Ultimately we write it - the choice is ours!

The Saturday Update

We've had a wonderful Christmas week.

We spent Christmas Eve visiting family and taking Isabella to church. Christmas Day was just us four and my lovely in-laws came over on Boxing Day.

The kids were truly spoiled - I've never seen so much Playmobil under one roof. We've eaten a lot of chocolate and watched a lot of films.

For the rest of the week we relaxed, stocked up on wood, took the kids out on the bikes, went to a play gym with friends and really had some quality time together.

I'm looking forward to more of the same for the next week!

Links!

Some of these are amazing.

Looking forward to seeing this film next year.

An interesting start of a list.

This man needs a grandchild!

I need to do more of this.

Currently enjoying this book with Isabella.

True notes on learning German.

Really enjoying this series.

December Goals Review

Here's how this month went:

• Get Joshua settled at nursery - done!
• Try two new recipes -done!
• Celebrate a nice, relaxed, family Christmas at home - done!
• Get the house in order - in progress.
• Work out a work schedule for 2018 - in progress and going well.

Mamazon

Reading Review

Small Great Things - Jodi Picoult

This book, passed on to me by my Mum, was everything I hoped for. I read My Sister's Keeper several years ago and I know that Picoult is excellent at making the big issues real on a personal level.

Small Great Things tackles the issue of racism from several perspectives on so many levels. The events of the story are so close to home, it's unreal, following the story of baby Davis who dies before he is even a week old, leading his white power parents to blame and sue the African American nurse.

Picoult writes in such a way that I could identify with all of the characters at times and of course, it was a tear jerker.

Murder on Pilgrims' Way - Julie Wassmer

Another book passed on from my Mum, I enjoyed this murder mystery set just outside of Canterbury.

It was a quick and easy read but it kept me guessing until the end and had some clever twists.

I skipped two of the series but look forward to catching up and I'm enjoying hearing that there's even a TV series in the works!

Shibumi -Trevanian

Nico bought me this book as he is currently reading and enjoying the German translation. It follows the life story of a world-class assasin with Japanese, Russian and German roots right up to his current tete-a-tete with the American government.

It covers such an eclectic and eccentric mix of topics from the game of Go to the Basque language and was a fantastic read, not at all dated by the forty years that have passed since it was written.

Happy Holidays!

Merry Christmas!

Weekly Wisdom

The magic of Christmas never ends, and its greatest gifts are family and friends.

The Saturday Update

A crazy but good last week of term. Joshua had an early start to the holidays with just one day at nursery before his teacher went off sick.

Both kids enjoyed the Christmas party on Wednesday with Nico while I did my last work shift of the year.

We caught up with friends for a playdate on Thursday, which was also the last day for Nico and Isabella.

Yesterday was a blur of cleaning, washing, shopping, wrapping and kids! We're ready for Christmas now though and looking forward to some quality family time.

Links!

Putting this on my to-do list.

Comedy wildlife photos.

Important words as parents.

Fun idea.

Cute study.

Thought provoking art.

This kid made my day.

So happy for the Unmumsy Mum as four become five!

Christmas Spirit

Mirror

For months, I've been looking for a round mirror with a wooden frame to fill this odd shaped space on the wall in our room.

Finally, on a trip to Ikea with my Mum last month, I spotted this on sale for just thirty euros!

They have a funny system for end of the line products so it cost us in nerves what we saved in money but it was worth it in the end and I'm so pleased with how it looks. It really changes and completes the room.

Recipe: Paleo Prawn and Vegetable Curry

Ingredients:

• 1 onion
• 2 inches of ginger
• 2 cloves of garlic
• 250g prawns
• 1 red chilli
• 1 green apple
• 1 sweet potato
• 300g sprouts
• Oil
• 1tbsp red curry paste
• 400ml coconut milk
• 100ml vegetable stock
• Seasoning

Instructions:

1. Chop the onion and fry it with the ginger, garlic and prawns. Remove from the heat.

2. Chop the sweet potato and halve the sprouts. Fry them with the chilli for 3 or 4 minutes. Add the coconut milk followed by the stock and curry paste.

3. Cook over a medium heat for 15 minutes. Add the apple and the prawn mixture. Cook for a further 5 minutes, season and serve.

Make it Monday - Tree Decorations

 At the Gonis party back in October, my order merited a free gift of two clear plstic tree baubles.

I bought some red and gold feathers to put in the baubles to add a bit of colour that matches our scheme.

I used my red and white Gonis paints. I was making some white snowflakes when the paint spluttered so I improvised, making a white background with a red snowflake too.

It's nice that they are different yet complementary. A lovely addition to our decorations in my year of create!

Weekly Wisdom

Don’t live in the past, don’t wish away right now for the future. This, right here, right now, is where you are supposed to be.

The Saturday Update

I find myself starting this post in the same way every week but this week really has been a whirlwind. 

After a fairly quiet weekend with a nice Sunday afternoon visit from friends, Monday was a day of chores, Kindergarten runs and dance class.

On Tuesday I had a visit to the job centre, an observation for a third company I'm hoping to work for in the new year and a Christmas night out with the girls from my postnatal class.  It was a really lovely evening and we were the last ones out of the restaurant. 

I started my second new job on Wednesday and it went really well.It felt good to be back in a classroom, especially a quiet one with kids who want to learn (kind of).  In the evening I went to Zumba which was also quiet. Lots of things seem to be winding down for Christmas.

Thursday was the one quiet day this week and between the usual daily grind I did a bit of work getting to grips with LaTex software and preparing some school materials.

Yesterday was the usual Friday chaos of baby swimming and housework.  It was also Nico's Christmas do with work so I took the kids to the Christmas market by myself.

Joshua is doing well, getting settled at nursery and Isabella is loving Kindergarten as always.  We're all still struggling with coughs and colds and I am really looking forward to both the quiet weekend and the start of the holidays on Friday to recover!

Links!

Love this parenting essay complete with comments from the teenager in question.

True.

Interested in seeing this.

Thought provoking.

Sad but true.

Wonderful photos.

And a wonderful parent/photo project.

Double standards.

Dance Class

I'm so glad I signed up to this fitness studio back in September. I try to go two to three times a week and I'm always glad when I do.

Usually I do Zumba and a weights class but I recently took part in some different dance classes which have been really fun too. Even though I danced when I was younger, I do struggle to remember the steps so it's a good mental workout too. I'm really looking forward to keeping this up in 2018.

One Little Word - Create

For the last few years I have joined in with Ali Edwards' One Little Word project.  I have intentionally chosen a specific word and built my goals and ideas around it for a whole year, using it to stay inspired. 

For 2017, I chose the word 'Create' and it has certainly felt very appropriate.  This year I completed my knitting course, started crochet, made most of the birthday gifts we sent to people, made all my own cards, started calligraphy, made my own soap and tried lots of new recipes.

I made sure that I created an average of one thing per day, be it a set of Christmas cards or a letter, a crochet patch or a new Project Life spread.  It has certainly been a busy year.

I didn't complete everything I set out to do.  By Christmas I felt completely overwhelmed and resorted to buying many gifts, but I certainly made more and learned more this year than I would have done without focusing on this word.

On the whole I feel like I have acheived a lot this year.  Not the least of those things has been creating a safe and comfortable environment for the children.  It feels like this has been my year with Joshua, as I was on maternity leave throughout 2017.

Looking forward, I am excited about this new phase of our lives, just as much as I am worried about it too.  Joshua is starting nursery, and I am finding my feet in a very new work environment which will be better for us as a family in the long run.  I'm thinking a lot right now about my goals for 2018 and what my One Little Word should be.  I'm not decided yet but I know I will be following this project for another year and look forward to sharing it with you soon.

Reading Review

The Brutal Art - Jesse Kellerman

I was rereading this one after about ten years and while I honestly could remember nothing about it, it was a good read.  It wasn't your average page turner but it was interesting.

It follows the story of a New York art dealer who is tipped off to a huge undiscovered collection of brilliant artwork only to discover that it is linked to a series of brutal, unsolved murders.  The story flicks back and forth through time to tell the story of the artist.

It's really well written and I enjoyed reading it again.

Rules of Deception - Christopher Reich

It's almost difficult to review this book without giving away any big plot twists.  The novel tells the story of Jonathon Ransom who discovers that his wife has been leading a double life when she suffers a fatal mountaineering accident.

For me, there were one or two holes in the story but generally, I enjoyed the book and the various twists and turns.  A good international spy story.

The Saint Plays with Fire - Leslie Charteris

Among the free books I picked up a few months ago are a whole range of The Saint books.  I vaguely remember the television series but did not realise there were books too.  I picked this one out at random.

It is a typical detective story set early to mid twentieth century.  It was a quick and easy read but it also kept me guessing.  It reminded me a little of Sherlock Holmes.  I enjoyed the story and look forward to reading the others from the series.

Make it Monday - Christmas Decorations

 Our tree seems to get fuller every year and I don't really think we need a bigger one. I aim to buy one decoration per year and we've received several as gifts. I like a tree that tells a story. There are memories on there from our first Christmas together, the first in our flat, our engagement, our first as Mr & Mrs, our first in the house, Isabella's first Christmas and Joshua's. This year we bought a small wooden decoration on our Harz holiday and I used my Gonis products to make two that I'll share with you soon.

As a result of this, and since the lower part of the tree is a bit emptier due to our curious one year old, I decided to repurpose some of the basic baubles. I bought a bit of greenery on sale at Netto, trimmed it down and filled four vases with that and the baubles. It was simple but effective. I love that it ties in to the tree and spreads the Christmas feeling around the room.

It makes a lovely centrepiece for the table when we host my in-laws on Boxing Day too. The best part is the beautiful smell of the real fir tree branch. I'll be making this a new tradition!

Weekly Wisdom

We must look inside.

The Saturday Update

Another crazy week here. After a quiet weekend, it feels like we haven't stopped since and we're truly in need of another one.

Joshua started nursery and apart from catching a cold, he's had a brilliant start to this new phase. Like his sister, I seem to have more trouble getting him to leave!

Monday evening was the nursery / kindergarten AGM and it was quite an eventful evening. The meeting lasted almost three hours.

I spent the week making work plans for the new year including some online training. It felt good to get back into the world of teaching.

Wednesday was St Nicholas' Day. We were all spoiled and Isabella had a theater trip too.

Joshua had his check up on Thursday, which went well. He was much braver than his mummy when it came to his jabs.

Yesterday was non-stop! From nursery, to swimming, cleaning at home, cleaning at kindergarten...

We're hoping for a quiet weekend as we all recover from coughs and colds.

Links!

More than one of these made me laugh while drinking coffee.

What an interesting survey!

An interesting article on marriage.

Good tips for entertaining.

Too easy to relate to.

Hilarious and true.

DIY fun.

Staying on track.

Gino

Currently...

...attending meeting after meeting about work.
...Christmas shopping.
...worrying about an unwanted intruder in the house.
...making great plans for 2018.
...loving/hating settling Joshua in at nursery.
...reading this page turner.
...cycling again and enjoying it.
...enjoying this season through Isabella's eyes.

December Goals

Here are my goals for this month:

• Get Joshua settled at nursery.
• Try two new recipes.
• Celebrate a nice, relaxed, family Christmas at home.
• Get the house in order.
• Work out a work schedule for 2018.

Make it Monday - Christmas Cards

 After four attempts, I finally got all of my Christmas cards made and written this weekend. Nico had ordered me some lovely cream cardstock and I put my Gonis products to work.

For the most part I used their stamp set with gold ink. I also took advantage of their example designs, just changing up the last one, which ended up being my favourite.

 Some of the designs had cut outs which stood off from the card with the help of some sticky pads. By far my favourite technique was the new paint pen used for the red baubles above.

I used the white paint pen to make this, the only December birthday card this year. I love the results and will be using more of these products in 2018.

Weekly Wisdom

In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.

The Saturday Update

Phew, what a week. I'm exhausted. We've all been fighting off coughs and colds while keeping busy.

Our car went in for repairs on Monday. You don't realise how much you depend on something until it's not there.

Tuesday was full of appointments. In the evening I took the kids to my old school for their Winter market.

Joshua turned one on Wednesday. We had a party with family, friends and two cakes. The birthday boy was truly spoiled.

Thursday and Friday have been spent running errands, keeping appointments and generally trying to play catch up. I finally got the kids Advent calenders set up last night.

This weekend will be more catching up, possibly with a sneaky visit to the local Christmas market. We might even get some Christmas decorations up.

Links!

What a bitter-sweet idea.

Dads get it too.

What an epic journey!

This is us!

Love this!

Amazing images, important message.

Another fab Christmas gift idea.

Some Christmas baking ideas.

November Goals Review

• Try two new recipes - done!
• Sort the kids rooms and clothes - done (and need to do again!)
• Plan Joshua's birthday - done!
• Fly a kite - not done - too many coughs and colds to brave the weather.
• Host two mummy meetings - done!

One year!

Somehow, our baby turns one today and I'm left wondering where the time has gone. He is such a joy and brings light to all of our lives.

The stages have flown by. The year started out tougher than I expected as Joshua is so different to his sister. He was and is much more clingy and we were almost inseperable for six months which was exhausting.

He is such a funny little character though. I think he gets a lot of it from observing his sister but he does make us all laugh. He's walking, playing and eating for himself at the moment and starting nursery next week!

Today we're celebrating with family and I'm feeling reflective and grateful. It's so true what they say - the days are long but the years are short.

Recipe: Ginger Biscuits

Ingredients:

• 125g butter
• 50g sugar
• Few drops vanilla essence
• 50g ginger powder
• Pinch of salt
• 75g rice flour
• 100g spelt flour
• 1 tbsp milk

Instructions:

1. Mix the butter and sugar until soft.

2. Add the remaining ingredients and mix well.

3. Roll out to about 5mm thickness.

4. Cut into shapes.

5. Bake at 150℃ for 25 minutes.

Make it Monday - Christmas Tea Light Holders

 While Mum was here I got cracking on the first of my Christmas gifts so that she could transport them back to England.

 First we went to Ikea and stocked up on glass tea light holders.

 Then I got out my gonis stencils, relief paste and some spatulas and Mum helped me whip up forty of these holders with the help of some mulled wine.

 I love these designs and made up different pairings to gift to different friends.

 It's an effective technique. I look forward to making some non-Christmas ones next year.

Weekly Wisdom

Fitness isn't a punishment, it's a blessing. Nutrition isn't restrictive, it's healing.

The Saturday Update

We've had a busy week with my mum here.

Sunday started with a lovely Skype catch up with my friend and her new baby. Mum arrived at lunchtime and the kids were over the moon.

Nico went away for his school trip on Monday. We had a quiet morning and took the kids out for cake after Kindergarten.

Tuesday was an adventure with a trip to Ikea, visiting a new kindergarten class and treating the kids to ice cream.

We kept Isabella off on Wednesday and went into Bremen. They are getting ready for the Christmas markets. We had lunch, did a spot of shopping and visited the cathedral.

Thursday was busy with the car going to the garage. We walked out for a coffee and food shopping. In the afternoon I picked up Nico and we had a takeaway.

Yesterday was an early start to get Mum to the station. Then I drove out to pick up a prescription and enoyed a nice breakfast out with Joshua. I'm exhausted and not feeling 100% so the weekend will be about recovering and sorting the house out.

Links!

Isabella's just getting into games, I look forward to this in future years.

An intetesting point.

The secret to success.

Relationship truth.

Love this cozy office.

I love traveling by train.

What an amazing story of karma.

Funny parenting tweets.

Fun video

This is scarily addictive viewing!

Advent Ideas

In the last seven years, I've learned that Germans take advent to a whole new level. It's not just about chocolate (although there is that), parents find different ways to treat their children daily in December.

Last year we found a 24-piece jigsaw, which was fun but difficult for her to understand, and four little toys for the weekly one.

This year we've got Playmobil mad for Christmas and I'm planning to break up one of her sets into 24 pieces. I can't wait to see her face.

I'll be putting toys for both kids in the weekly one too. I'm looking forward to cracking on with that next week although my head is spinning at how fast the days are going right now!

Recipe: Carrot, Leek and Mushroom Risotto

Ingredients:

• 1 litre stock
• 3 tbsp butter
• 1 onion, diced
• 4 carrots, grated
• 1 carton of mushrooms, chopped
• 1 leek, diced
• 3 cloves garlic, crushed
• 2 tbsp thyme
• 2 cups arborio rice
• 1/2 cup of white wine
• 1/2 cup parmesan cheese
• Salt and pepper

Instructions:
1. Fry the onion, leek, carrots and mushrooms in the butter for five minutes.
2. Add the garlic, thyme and seasoning for about a minute.
3. Add the rice for a minute or so, followed by the wine.
4. Add the stock, ladle by ladle until it is soaked in and the rice is no longer crunchy.  Check the seasoning, add the cheese and serve.

Make it Monday - Baby Bunting

As I mentioned last week, I've been making a special gift for the new baby girl of one of my best friends.  I've made similar bunting for her first baby and my nieces.  

This time I was going for a pink theme and while it is a darker shade than I was planning on, I do like the finished product.  New this time, I added some buttons to the ribbon, I think it breaks up the ribbon nicely, while keeping the theme, and with the shortest name I've made bunting for, the little sweetheart deserved a little something extra.

I also added in some simple bunting.  I make the name section double sided, to give it a bit of extra strength.  The extra was single sided with a narrower ribbon, just to tie it in and brighten up her room a little.

Weekly Wisdom

There will be so many times when you feel like you've failed, but in the eyes, heart and mind of your child, you are super mum.

The Saturday Update

We've had a busy old week here. Full of playdates and appointments. It's the first week in a long time that I've not gotten near the end of the to do list...

I have managed to secure some work for the new year teaching English at Kindergarten, get three fitness classes in and keep the many, many appointments so I guess it's been a win overall.

Next week I'm looking forward to my mum visiting while Nico is away on a school trip, getting some crafting done and meeting some new friends.

Links!

What a fun toy!

Sounds like my kinda marathon.

Looking forward to this film.

I hope this is true.

A fun photo project. (no.5!)

Good for them.

Emotional labour.

What a beast of a cat!

Bureaucracy

Reading Review

The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Mark Twain

The last of my children's classics, this one took a while to get into but once I did, I really enjoyed it. It tells the story of Huck Finn and his friend, the runaway slave Jim as they sail down the Mississippi. The language is difficult at times but fits the story.

Nothing to Lose - Lee Child

This was a nice, easy read to break up the classics. Unlike the last Jack Reacher, this one kept me guessing. The books do follow the same pattern, Jack Reacher on the road, gets dragged in to a case, sleeps with a local, solves the mystery, moves on. I personally preferred the first ones with more history and personality involved but the books are fun to read anyway.

The 158-pound marriage - John Irving

I came across this book in the 200+ free collection from the classifieds. I knew and liked the author already from Owen Meany.

The novel is the story of two couples who indulge in some partner swapping. It follows the relationship and looks back on the histories of the main characters too.

I found the histories and the psychological side of this story really interesting. The characters were engaging and the book left me wanting more.

Recipe: Cherry Cake

Ingredients:

• 5 eggs
• 225g sugar
• 1 package of vanilla sugar
• 1/2 tube of butter-vanilla aroma
• 125ml water
• 250ml oil
• 375g flour
• 1 package of baking powder
• 1 jar of cherries
• 2 tbsp cocoa powder

Instructions:

1. Separate the eggs.

2. Combine the yolks, sugar and vanilla sugar.

3. Add the aroma, water, oil, flour and baking powder.

4. Whisk the egg whites with a pinch of salt until they are stiff. Stir them into the dough.

5. Divide the dough in two and add the cocoa powder to one half.

6. Line a baking tin. Add two spoons of each dough in turn to the middle of the tin, adding cherries in between each layer. Start with the vanilla dough, otherwise the layers won't rise properly.

7. Bake the cake at 160℃ for 50 minutes.

Make it Monday - Birth Congratulations Card

A simple but effective one this week. I recently got an acrylic block to use with some stamps I've had for a while. My idea was to use it for Christmas cards but I had another opportunity this week to cobgratulate some friends on the birth of their second beautiful baby girl.

The stamps worked perfectly. I used pink ink of course and while it was simple, I think it looks really effective. I like to use images in threes and I think it uses the space well.

Next week, I'll be sharing the gift I sent with the card.

Weekly Wisdom

If it is right, it happens. The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.

The Saturday Update

It's been such a busy week, I didn't know whether I was coming or going.

I took the kids to the library on Monday. Tuesday was quiet, I used the time to get on with some sewing.

I baked cakes on Wednesday and Thursday. Joshua's nursery staff came to visit us on Wednesday afternoon and I feel much better about him starting there next month.

The mums from my prenatal yoga course came over for coffee on Thursday. It felt like ages since we saw them. It was great to catch up.

Yesterday was the usual madness of baby swim and cleaning but now it's weekend and we've got nothing on followed by a quiet week. I can't wait.

Links!

Free applique patterns!

Blast from the past.

On my Christmas list.

An important message.

I love these insights.

An inspiring list.

Fun wedding pics.

Meanwhile in Europe.

Bullying - whose problem?

One day this week, I was cycling past the high school on my way to pick up Isabella from Kindergarten when I saw two boys in the cycle park.  By this time school was finished, most of the students had left school and there weren't many people around.

One boy had the other in a headlock and they were struggling.  As a teacher, I often see children 'playing' in this way and I know that I am too likely to boss strangers about based on my job.  I often have to remind myself in public that these loud/naughty/inconsiderate teenagers are neither my children nor my pupils and because of that I almost carried on past these boys on this particular day. 

Then I heard the boy in the headlock cry out and I realised, this isn't just two kids messing about, it's one child hurting another and while they're still not my responsibility, if another child did that to one of my children, I'd want the stranger on a bike to do something. 

I stopped and asked the boy to let the other one go.  He claimed it was just a bit of fun but the victim said otherwise.  I repeated my request and as another woman came by from the car park and also confronted the boy, he let go and left.

Part of me wishes I had done more, part of me thinks more would have been overkill and possibly caused more problems for the victim.  However, the whole incident stuck with me somehow.  It made me realise more than ever that parenting changes you in so many ways and gives you a whole new perspective.

Bullying is never going to go away unfortunately but it's something to which I never want to turn a blind eye. The whole incident reminded me of this post from one of my favourite mummy-bloggers whose daughter stood up to bullying in an incredibly brave way.  That's how we should be bringing up our children and it starts here and now.

Parenting Truth

Recipe: Pumpkin, carrot & ginger soup

Ingredients:

• Pumpkin
• 4 carrots
• 1 onion
• 2 cloves garlic
• 1 inch fresh ginger
• 1/2 litre vegetable stock
• Curry powder
• Seasoning
• Paprika
• Smokey salt
• Butter

Instructions:

1. Chop and boil the pumpkin and carrots until soft.

2. Meanwhile, fry the onion, garlic and ginger for five minutes. Add the spices for 1 minute followed by the stock.

3. Drain and transfer the vegetables to the fried mix.

4. Blend the mixture. Season to taste.

Make it Monday - Stencilled Candle

My Gonis products arrived last week and I got busy straight away with my new stencils. I'm really pleased with this first attempt with relief paste on glass.

It was the first time I used relief paste and it was quicker and easier than I thought, with a lovely result. I left it to dry overnight.

I'm planning on some more Christmas themed candle holders soon!

Weekly Wisdom

Make it Happen!

The Weekly Update

Despite, or maybe because of the long weekend, it feels like we've had a mad week here.

We spent the bank holiday at Nico's parents' as his Mum had her birthday. It was lovely as ever to catch up with family.

Since then it's been back to the routine - Kindergarten, work, cycling, sport, baby swimming. It feels good and I'm finally enjoying the new season and cooler weather.

Yesterday was Isabella's lantern festival and a good opportunity to get to know the other Kindergarten parents better. The rest of the day was spent preparing for the clothes party we hosted this morning. We had fewer guests than I thought but it was really good and our house looks better for it!

Next week is even busier but I'm feeling ready for it!

Links!

Good advice for me.

Humans matching artwork.

I don't usually like house tours but this is right up my street.

Freaky interior design.

I'd love to eat here.

I've said this should happen for years.

A new-to-me UK blogger I'm looking in to.

The ten worst things in the world.

Currently...

...sorting out baby clothes (Joshua's getting so big!)
...enjoying our wood burning fire.
...cycling more.
...celebrating a friend's new baby.
...accepting the changing of the seasons.
...looking forward to lantern festival tomorrow.
...struggling through my latest read.
...dreaming.

November Goals

Here's what I want to do this month:

• Try two new recipes.
• Sort the kids rooms and clothes.
• Plan Joshua's birthday.
• Fly a kite.
• Host two mummy meetings.

Recipe: Hollandaise Sauce

Ingredients:

• 250g butter, melted
• 3 egg yolks
• Seasoning
• 40ml water
• 1 squeeze of lemon juice.

Instructions:

1. Whisk all the ingredients, except for the butter, in a bain marie.

2. Continue to whisk, gradually adding the butter. Whisk briskly until thickened.

Tip: This sauce can quickly go too far. Mine did and it looked like melted butter again. Luckily the hubby was on hand to save it with an ice cube and extra egg yolk.

Make it Monday - November Birthday Cards

This month I managed to mix it up a bit. The most exciting one for me was the one you see on the right. The other two use techniques I've used before while this one is for an older man. I found the creativty to mix old stock and new, and I like the results.

Weekly Wisdom

The body needs movement, the mind needs stillness.

The Saturday Update

It's been a really busy week, starting with our breakfast with friends on Sunday and going to the kids' theatre after. It was a nice trip out.

In the evening Dad arrived with my nephew and we had a fun few days with swimming on Monday, a day trip to Bremen on Tuesday and a day playing at home on rainy Wednesday.

Isabella had a busy week at Kindergarten despite her day off with photos, swimming and gym.

I've missed my sports but cycled almost every day and focused on studying around the usual daily grind.

Next week is also busy with a family birthday, lantern festival and the clothes party but hopefully less stressed once today is over!

Links!

Yum!

Advice with hindsight.

New (to me) mummy blog.

I've put most of these on Isabella's wish list.

Beautiful motherhood photos.

Cool idea.

Intriguing.

Love these too.

October Goals Review

It has not been a great month on the goal front. October has gone so fast, I can hardly believe it's November next week. Here's how I did:

• Speak as much German as possible before my C1 exam! - kind of, could have done more...
• Send two postcards. - done!
• Try two new recipes. - done!
• Get back on the health kick after the holidays. - nope.
• Learn to play backgammon. - nope.

Reading Review

The Hard Way - Lee Childs

Another one from the 200+ freebies, I took this one on holiday with me for a quick read and it certainly was that. It was enjoyable and interesting but I didn't enjoy it as much as some of his other works as I had the twist figured out much too early. Either I'm reading too many of these books or I'm getting clever!

Veni, Vidi, Vici - Peter Jones

I started reading this on holiday. From the non-fiction section, it explains everything you wanted to know about the Romans and then some!

At first I found it very interesting, especially the linguistic tidbits but towards the end, it was very dry and hard work to read.

Jackdaws - Ken Follett

This was a fantastic read. I love Ken Follett's novels but I've never read his earlier works before.

Jackdaws follows the female protaganist Flick, and her mission behind enemy lines towards the end of World War Two. There was no cross over with his other works and it was a real page turner. Cannot recommend it enough.

Recipe: Spelt bread rolls

Ingredients:

• 240g spelt flour
• 7g yeast
• 2 tbsp sugar
• 5g salt
• 120ml milk
• 60ml luke warm water
• 30ml olive oil
• Sesame seeds

Instructions:

1. Combine 90g flour with the other dry ingredients. Mix the wet ingedients in a second bowl before adding them to the dry mixture. Whisk for two minutes.

2. Add 30g more flour and whisk for a further two minutes.

3. Add the remaining flour, kneed the dough and return it to the bowl, to rest, covered for ten minutes.

4. Form rolls in a baking tin, top with sesame seeds and leave to rise for 45 minutes.

5. Bake at 190℃ for 18 minutes.

Make it Monday - Crochet Baby Blanket

This was my first big crochet project, the first that wasn't from my subscription course, and I loved it. It's from Mollie Makes and I made it for my friend's baby shower. She's expecting her second daughter next month and I couldn't be at her shower but I sent this gift.

The wool is beautiful, so soft and thick. I also made my first pompoms for the corners. I love the end product. It's going to be my go-to gift for future babies. I think blue would look just as cute and I'm considering making some to sell. Even the ladies in the post office loved it. Hopefully my friend will too!

Weekly Wisdom

Live fully in the season you are in because you won't get it back.

The Saturday Update

We've had a pretty good week in our new routine here.

On Monday I took Isabella to Kindergarten and stayed until she'd had breakfast. While she played out, I whizzed over on the bike to meet some mummy friends for a quick coffee.

Tuesday was similar but I didn't stay for the breakfast. On Wednesday she was sick which means 48 hours off. I was worried she wasn't liking Kindergarten as she'd complained about the noise but she was keen to go back on Friday which was her best day yet. They had gym and she had lunch there too. She loved it.

I'm feeling good with cycling every day, even in the pouring rain yesterday. Joshua had baby swim at the new time so he was shattered too. I've fit in a fair bit of studying and read a whole Ken Follett novel.

On the whole, a really good week!

Links!

The New York subway.

Kids crafts.

Amazing wildlife photography.

We don't do Halloween but if we did, Isabella would absolutely love these Shrek costumes.

No excuses!

Already eying up next year's goals.

Getting inspired by Ali.

On day three of this.

Lantern Workshop

With Isabella's return to Kindergarten comes a barrage of events for our calendar. The first was the lantern workshop last night.

At nursery this was always a chaotic afternoon with Nico and I rushing from work so one of us could distract her while the other cut and stick a lantern together.

I have to say, I prefer the Kindergarten's method. I got there at seven pm, on edge after a crazy afternoon with the kids and was promptly served a cup of mulled wine!

One of the teachers had made example lanterns and the kids had been asked to choose early in the week - owl or shark. All but one of the girls picked owls, and all but one of the boys picked sharks.

I was in the owl room which inevitably had all of the glitter and pink card. First I cut all the pieces. This took longer than expected as I forgot that owl lanterns need four wings, two heads and four eyes! Then came the sticking, and finally the decoration.

I am really pleased with my two hours' work. It was also fun watching and listening to the dads who had been sent along to make their girls' lanterns. I've never heard so many wonderings about shades of pink and glitter!

Looking forward to the festival now!

Gonis

As I mentioned, I was invited to a Gonis party last week. I had no idea what to expect other than a craft party. I had never heard of Gonis.

It was along the lines of a Tupperware or Avon party. The friend had about ten guests there and a rep. Everyone had a catalogue and a Christmas flyer. The rep highlighted various products from the catalogue and showed us different projects we could use them for.

I put in an order and booked a party for next year. If my German was better and I knew more people, I'd consider becoming a rep myself.

The projects really inspired me with some ideas for Christmas and I'm looking forward to sharing them here. My goodies arrive on Friday and then I'll be off!

Recipe: Leftover Bake

Ingredients:

• 1/2 pumpkin
• 2 carrots
• 4 sticks celery
• 2 tomatoes
• 1 can kidney beans
• 1/2 can sweetcorn
• 1/2 can chopped tomatoes
• Tomato puree
• African spice mix
• Garlic powder
• Onion powder
• Salt & pepper
• 4 eggs
• 100ml milk
• 150g grated cheese

Instructions:

1. Boil the pumpkin and carrots.

2. Drain and combine in a baking dish with the remaining vegetables, lentils and spices.

3. Mix the eggs and milk in a jug and pour over the mixture.

4. Top with cheese and bake at 200℃ for 30 to 40 minutes until set and brown on top.

Make it Monday - Painting

This week I felt like painting. I've had this image in my head for a while. It never looks quite like I pictured it once I've got it on paper but it's so relaxing.

My next painting project will be to get back into oils. This was with water paint tubes.

Weekly Wisdom

Your only limit is you.

The Saturday Update

This week was actually more relaxing than our week away!

I fit in two fitness classes - aerobic dance and weights. I wasn't as strict on the diet front but better than the week before and that felt good.

On Wednesday I took Isabella to a play but it wasn't as good as we'd hoped. She enjoyed seeing her friends though.

In the evening I went to a craft party which really inspired me with some Christmas ideas.

I took Isabella to the library and to run some errands around Leeste on Thursday. She rode her bike and loved it.

Yesterday I got caught up on jobs around the house.

We're having a quiet weekend before it's back to work/school/kindergarten on Monday. I'm finishing up some sewing and starting the new phase with a positive outlook.

Links!

Bedtime done right.

Cute vase.

'Elevator captain'...love it!

Halloween made easy.

Some good book gift tips.

Beautiful ballet.

This makes my eyes go funny.

Introvert info.

40 things- learn to plait Isabella's hair

While on holiday last week, I finally attempted a French plait in Isabella's hair.

If there's one thing German women seem so much better at, it's plaiting hair. I've no chance of doing my own but I really wanted to learn for Isabella and her hair is finally long enough.

I know the above picture isn't perfect but in my opinion, it's a pretty good first attempt! As long as she's willing, I'll keep trying and who knows, maybe I will manage my own one day!

Currently...

...drinking nutmeg milk.
...stressing about exams.
...enjoying school holidays.
...recovering from our mini-break.
...feeling inspired about crafting.
...reading about the Romans.
...getting into the autumn spirit.
...working in the garden.

Recipe: Pumpkin Bread

Ingredients:
300g pumpkin
125ml milk
1 tbsp butter
500g flour
2 tbsp sugar
3.5g salt
7g yeast

Instructions:
1. Boil the pumpkin, drain and blend.
2. Add the milk and butter and stir well.
3. Add the remaining ingredients. Knead well. Transfer to a baking tin and rest for thirty minutes.
4. Bake at 170℃ for about fifty minutes.

Make it Monday: Girls' jeans

I've been making the most of nap times and Nico being off this week to rustle up some gifts for my nieces' birthdays.

This is another one from the mummy's sewing book and my first with pockets!!

I love that you can individualise the contrast material. I chose pink hearts for one twin and lilac hearts for the other. I have the same material in blue to make for Isabella.

Despite taking my time to get started on this project, I really enjoyed the process. I'll be using this pattern again for sure.

Weekly Wisdom

Do something now that will make the person you'll be tomorrow proud to have been the person you are today.

The Saturday Update

We've had a nice, if somewhat washed out, week away.

We had a lovely weekend visiting Nico's family. The sunshine was glorious on Sunday.

On Monday we drove to Altenau in the rain. The accommodation was very spacious and had everything we needed though sleeping in a family room was an adventure! We had a short walk around the town and a little climb to a viewpoint.

We tried to get out for walks twice on Tuesday but didn't get far due to torrential downpours.

Wednesday was our big walk day. Four hours around the beautiful outskirts of Altenau and no complaining from the kids, plus we got our first stamp in our Harz Wanderpasses!

Thursday was terrible again so we drove out to do a bit of shopping, took the kids swimming at the local spa, and went to a small wood museum. A lovely day despite the weather.

Yesterday, we drove home, picking Pete up on the way. The house was still standing despite the storms and I was glad to have cleaned before we left.

Links!

This is a worrying trend.

Some good food tips, especially the pizza.

A new site for creatives.

Seeing this cute video everywhere.

So important.

How to become a grown up.

The U.S. has so many shops I wish we had.

Funny.

Reading Review

Aladdin and other tales from Arabian Nights

Before picking this book up, I only knew the Disney version of Aladdin and I was honestly surprised at how different the original is. Just the fact that it was knew an unknown made the adventure story more exciting for me.

It was branded as a children's classic but from the language I'm not surprised I never picked it up as a child.

The 'other tales' were the seven voyages of Sinbad which were new to me as well. They were varied and interesting too.

The Stretch - Stephen Leather

Another of my freebies, I probably wouldn't have picked this up otherwise. It tells the story of a crime boss' wife and how she handles the business while he's in prison.

It was an easy read and the point of view was interesting but this one didn't really grip me.

Coral Island - R.M.Ballantyne

Another fake 'children's classic', this one tells the story of three men shipwrecked on an island in the South Pacific. It was actually an interesting read and I really enjoyed following their adventures. I'd recommend this one.

October Goals

Here's what I hope to do this month:

• Speak as much German as possible before my C1 exam!
• Send two postcards.
• Try two new recipes.
• Get back on the health kick after the holidays.
• Learn to play backgammon.

Recipe: Crock pot Gumbo

Ingredients:

• 1 onion
• 1 green pepper
• 3 sticks of celery
• 300g chicken breast
• 2 cups chicken stock
• 1 tin chopped tomatoes
• 2 cloves garlic
• Thyme
• Oregano
• Cajun spice mix
• 200g frozen prawns
• 2 cups cooked rice

Instructions:

1. Place the first ten ingredients in the crock pot and cook on lw for six or seven hours.

2. An hour before you want to eat, add the prawns.

3. Thirty minutes before serving, add the rice.

An easy and tasty dish, I love the crock pot.

Make it Monday: October Birthday Cards

I feel like I'm a bit stuck in a rut this month with my card making. For four out of the five I stuck to a name theme and varied the medium with stickers and stamps.

I'm most pleased with the card on the left as it's a bit different, it's something new and I like the complementing colours.

Weekly Wisdom

You don't have to be blooming to be growing.

The Saturday Update

It started as a slow week here, getting a big project finished up but has ended in a mad rush of preparing to go away and finishing up the month on a high.

I had parents' evening for Joshua's nursery which had me excited and nervous in equal measure. His start date is coming up way too fast.

I had a lovely girls night that went on very late. It was so good to catch up with good friends and my wonderful hubby put the kids to bed for a third night this week.

Yesterday was baby swimming and a mad rush of jobs - washing, cleaning, shopping, packing...

...I'm still finishing up this morning but hopefully it will all be worth it when we get back to nature and enjoy some quality family time! Roll on hols!

Links!

Love this kind of inspiration.

What a crazy food story.

Great news for feminists.

I would love to visit this.

Some good tips for a different declutter.

Interior decor tips.

A future craft project.

For when the diet is over.

September Goals Review

Well, September was a successful month here!

• Make a dress - done!
• Start a calligraphy course - done!
• Two new recipes (healthier eating) - done!
• Two letters - done!
• Finish my photography course - done!

Clothes Party

As I mentioned, we were at a kids clothes party at the weekend. A friend of a friend sews children's clothes and sells them in a shop in Bremen as well as online. She also offers these parties on weekends and evenings.

This was the second one I have been to. At the first I bought a top and trousers for Isabella. This time I got her a hooded jacket and skirt, and Joshua trousers, slippers and a hat, all for 48 Euros.

Now I am planning my own party for November. I'm going to invite all the mums I know from different groups and hope to get a few of them together.

It's nice to feel like we're really putting roots down and building up contacts through the children.

Recipe: Salmon Fish Cakes

Ingredients:

• 300g salmon
• 1 small onion
• Chives
• 1/2 cup flour
• 1/4 cup mayonnaise
• 1tbsp mustard
• 1tbsp lemon juice
• 1 large egg
• Pepper to taste

Instructions:

1. Combine the ingredients in a bowl.

2. Form into five patties and fry for about ten minutes each side over a medium heat.

Make it Monday - Pompom!

Today I made my first pompom using the pompom maker from my knitting course.

It's one of four I need to finish up a bigger project I'm hoping to share here soon.

I found an online tutorial through google and got to work. I'm so pleased with the finished pompom, much better than the one I made using my hand.

Looking forward to piecing the final project together.

Weekly Wisdom

Be a girl with a mind,

a woman with attitude,

and a lady with class.

The Saturday Update

It's been a really busy week here. It started with World Children's Day on Sunday.

On Monday Isabella had her taster day at Kindergarten and both kids loved it. We're both excited for her to start next month. I also went to a drums alive class - it's rapidly becoming my favourite.

We had brunch with the yoga mums on Tuesday - always a lovely catch up.

Wednesday was quieter, getting some jobs done at home. In the evening I had parents' evening which was exciting.

Isabella had a playdate on Thursday and we stayed for dinner. The weather was glorious.

Yesterday we cycled to baby swim in the sunshine and in the afternoon we had a child's birthday party.

Today I'm at two more parties - clothes for the kids and make up in the afternoon. Sunday will be a day of rest!

Links!

So pleased for my friend and her business.

And my cousin who's doing some fab things in baking.

Fun with photo shop.

Recently discovered this amazing lady and her Ted talks.

This looks perfect for an autumn evening.

A modern take on Disney princesses.

This is our life right now.

Some help in finding the right self-help for you.

World Children's Day

20th September is World Children's Day. Here in Germany, they make quite a big deal of it.

Our local area plans a range of events for children. We've taken Isabella to the children's theater at the local high school twice and we'll be doing it again in October.

On Sunday, for World Children's Day they planned all sorts at the mill in Südweyhe. We were there right on time in glorious sunshine. It started with a play which was fun. It was 50 minutes long but Isabella did well with concentrating.

The mill itself is a museum so Nico and Isabella had a look while I waited with Joshua. There were games and toys, food and drink, badge making, a rally and face painting. Isabella had her face done with pink glitter as a princess. Later there was a magic show and a musical performance. Unlike the usual Sunday theaters, this was free (except the food and drink).

We saw lots of people we know - the youth volunteer from nursery, a child from nursery with her dad, Nico's colleague, my friends from post-natal fitness, mums and kids from kindergarten and even mums from other kids events like the theater and library.

It was a lovely morning and a great way to celebrate the kids. Joshua even stayed awake the whole time!

My Great Grandmother

Recently I've been delving into my family history again and, as those of you following my 40 things list may have noticed, lately my Mum and I have made some real progress.

As long as anyone in our family can remember, there has been a big mystery about my great-grandmother - Isabella Allan. We knew she came from up towards Jarrow and left her family there to move to Yorkshire in the twenties. There she met my great-grandfather and started another family.

We never knew why she moved or what happened until recently. With the help of my Dad's cousin who is a semi-professional genealogist, we have found some long lost cousins - the descendents of the children Isabella left up north.

Here's what we can piece together. She married Joseph Patterson at the age of seventeen and had two sons. Joseph went of to fight in World War One. When he came home on leave he discovered that Isabella was having an affair resulting in a third pregnancy. He took their two sons to live with his parents and returned to war where he was killed in Belgium.

Isabella gave her third son up for adoption but he did make contact later in life.

The next years are still a bit of a mystery but at some point she moved to Thorner and once settled, sent for her fourth (!) son to join her.

In Thorner she met my Great-Grandfather Willie and had three children with him before she passed away in the late 1950s.

It is a story full of scandal and shame and we've certainly had mixed feelings while learning all of this but I do believe it's the right time for this to come out. We're so over the moon to find that we have more cousins and that Isabella's older sons had good lives despite the tragic start.

I don't judge Isabella for what she did. We will never know why she had an affair but she was young and alone with two children in very unstable times. I never knew her so I can't say what kind of person she was. Plus, if she hadn't had this background, I wouldn't be here! Families and family histories are full of this kind of 'scandal'.

I'm so glad we finally know more about her and now we can start to look further back too.

Recipe: Albondigas (Spanish meatballs)

Ingredients:

• 500g beef mince
• 2 eggs
• 2 onions
• 2 cloves garlic
• Seasoning
• Coriander
• Cumin
• Fennel
• Olive oil
• Tomato puree
• Chopped tomatoes
• Rice to serve

Instructions:

1. Combine the mince, eggs, 1 onion, garlic, seasoning and herbs in a bowl. Form into balls and fry in the oil for about ten minutes

2. Fry the second onion with the tomato puree until brown. Add the chopped tomatoes and simmer for ten minutes.

3. Pour the sauce over the meatballs and cook for a further ten minutes.

4. Serve with the rice.